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Stop Attracting Men With Your Negative Energy

by Robert Lee, www.aLoveLinksPlus.com

As human beings we are victims of our emotions before not in control of our emotions then we are subject to them. If will have power out over our emotions and they have power over us leading us into unseen events, and usually bad circumstances.

If you're having a bad day and your surrounding yourself with negative energy oftentimes you'll be approached by a guy and he will be trying to be helpful in how he introduces himself to look for a way in through your that emotions, bad circumstances, and hope to be able to get closer to you.

It's easy to start enjoying immense company when he is "helping you" get through the tough times, but it's not the most ideal way to start any relationship friendship or otherwise.

Being dependent on someone when you're old enough to take care of yourself is something that you shouldn't make a habit of or better yet try rarely to do.

This negative energy that you give off sends the wrong signals and attracts the wrong man.

In this case the wrong man is "the fixer", this man is willing to help you with your problems as long as your problems are a way in for him. And it's often these type of men that dump you when you're no longer dependent on them or worse season than the whole bunch even try to control you, and they tried to, you can continue your downward spiral so that they gain more and more control over you.

Not the basis of a healthy relationship.

So I'm not going to tell you to stop talking to all men when you're sad or angry. I'm not going to tell you to avoid relationships when you're sad or angry or when you're just not in a plain old Goodman, what I am going to say is take care that it's not negative energy it's bringing people into your life.

If the man is truly helpful in your life. You will understand that not everyone flies like a straight arrow. Hopefully he'll even understand that he is not a straight arrow all the time. Emotions control us. We don't always control them, although would like to.

Starting and maintaining a healthy relationship involves the understanding and care of two people that know what emotional changes occur throughout our lifetime. Although it's ideal to attempt to control our emotions and for the most part, we managed quite well. It's not always the permanent solution.

Robert Lee is the editor of www.aLoveLinksPlus.com, the source for online dating advice and dating service reviews since 1999. Article (c) 2009 and is published with permission

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