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Love Notes
by Larry James

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Larry James
  • Love and verbal or physical abuse are incompatible. Someone who says they love you and continues to abuse you only thinks they need you. The truth is they will squeeze the life out of the relationship. The outcome is predictable. The person who intimidates with threats in one breath and attempts to persuade with promises of undying love the next is emotionally and mentally unstable. The sick have forgotten how to be well. Courage is called for. Refuse to become a part of the illness. Recognize its red flags. Distance yourself from such a person and seek help for yourself.

  • RedHot LoveNote. . . When you first met your lover, the hormones were dancing! There was a fire below. Then. . . what happened? Over time, they say, the romance disappears. It doesn't have to be that way. It takes work; an awareness that to have the romance continue, you both must have an intention for it to be that way and do whatever it takes for romance to continue to be present. Being attentive to your lover's needs is a more mature level of love. It's not as if the hormones are no longer dancing. . . they are now dancing to the same music!

  • LoveNote. . . Always do your best to avoid, at all costs, the necessity of experiencing the negative results of anger. The healthy release of anger must be presented in a way that empowers the relationship; anger expressed without blame, without pointing fingers. To avoid unnecessary pain, it is important to learn that anger must be expressed with an attitude of acknowledgment; acknowledgment for the responsibility you have for your equal share of the upset.


©2005

©2005 Larry James. Reprinted with permission. ~ This article is adapted from Larry's books,
"LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing,"
"How to Really Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship"
and "Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers." (Career Assurance Press).

Author Larry James is also a professional speaker. He presents "Relationship Enrichment LoveShops" nationally for singles and couples.

Larry is on staff with Dr. John Gray, Ph.D.

For information or to order a personally autographed book call: 800 725-9223.
CelebrateLove.com, P.O. Box 12695,
Scottsdale, AZ 85267-2695.

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WebSite: CelebrateLove.com


See a Review of Larry's books:
How to Really Love the One You're with!:
Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship
LoveNotes for Lovers:
Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing
Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers:
The Importance of Great Sexual Communication and Other Essentials for Extraordinary Hot Sex

The Woman the Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave

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Save The Marriage

You can get the relationship of your dreams . . . and it?s easier than you think!

  • Learning communication skills is not enough. That just teaches you to fight more effectively.
  • Give up on arguing. It always becomes a battle of opinions, and neither of you is likely to change.
  • Forget the theories you have heard.

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You deserve to be loved, to feel empowered in your relationship and to enjoy happiness. "Men Made Easy" offers you the tools you need to finally get what you want: ever-deepening love and respect, romance, and an enduring relationship with a man who makes you feel cherished and adored. Is that too much to ask for?





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